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Wayne got lots of questions in 2025. Top ones are listed below. In 2026 we will list them by category to make it easier to browse them.

Here are some of the top questions in 2025 and a couple from January.

Jill Taylor: January 2026 Hi Wayne, What sources do you utilize to generate leads, for your real estate business.?

Wayne answers: Jill I don’t generate leads. I hire a real estate pro and have him or her generate leads for me. Got any more questions? I love to teach people the back door to real estate.

Maria January 2026 Wayne, this is so random, but my garbage disposal broke and I can’t afford a plumber. What can I do?

Wayne answers: Maria read on. down below in 2025. Common garbage disposal problems tend to be very easy to fix. Try what I suggest and write back if it does not work.

Alex January 2026 My wife Sandy and I are unsure about whether to have a kid. All kinds of thoughts swirl in my head. What do you say?

Wayne answers Yes this topic has risen for our culture and for so many couples. All I can say is that my daughter - my unexpected and unplanned for daughter - has brought me the greatest joy in life. It’s not easy, but raising a child shapes meaning and delight.

Parry January 2026 The world! The World. How am I to think about the world. It is in so much turmoil

Wayne answers Yes, this is quite the time to be alive. So many changes and so fast. Watch your sources and try to get a balanced account of the matters that interest you. Sort fact from opinion. Notice the algorithms following you and be aware of this manipulation. Limit your daily time spent with “the news” - but not to the point of blindness. Work to find sources you have studied and deem accurate and well-intentioned. Notice what following lots of partisan propaganda does to your stomach; that’s happening in our precious mind too. When you get the outpouring of “news” under control, focus on bringing love to all that YOU produce in the world. Feel yourself moving towards sources of light and love.

Jeff 2025 This businessman says in order to get rich you must attend to morality as well as numbers. Do you agree? He says the best thing that ever happened to him was when he lost all his money. Then he got rich all over again: but on two levels. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eRlkcRnC9eE&t=781s what do you think?

Wayne answers yes, Jeff, that is critical. i have lost everything several times! but i really appreciate the learning lesson from each major setback.

when i went bankrupt, that dramatically allowed to reexamine my life and rebuild it with new happy positive goals, and to eliminate all my prior destructive behaviors. and it worked!

Jenny 2025 Hi Wayne! How do I stop overthinking? I get anxiety from it. Thanks!

Wayne answers Jenny: Stop! What I do is laugh. Go to my www.activateloveenergy.com and read the specific technique.

Somebody 2025: I keep worrying about the state of the world. We have fallen into such disarray. What is to be done?

Wayne answers: Start with your own world. What is to be done there? Bring some little part into coherence, and then ask what’s the next part. You can bring order, grace, and beauty to everything you do. Start there and the chaotic world around you will begin to recede. Always start with doing one thing well.

Tony 2026 Hi Wayne: I want to know how to overcome the fear of looking bad if something doesn't turn out perfectly? Thanks, Tony

Wayne answers: just laugh at fear! i say fuck fear and laugh! it diffuses the power of the fear. and also go back into love energy, it counters fear.

PETER LANG Do you know where i can find a '67 Camaro Convertible?

Wayne answers yes i just saw one sell on barrett jackson for 300k!! boy i miss my old 67' Coronaro.

ANKE Are you going to the Super Bowl?

Wayne answers no but i would love too....too expensive!

Dee Botchery 2025 Hello, I have an immediate manager who recently took over the postion that supervises me. It was a permotion for him, we used to be on the same level and manage several people but in different units. I had heard nightmare stories about him from people he superivised. It was mainly from women, which I am. One male had an issue with him, but as far as I know everyone else was female.
I am havng the same sort of issues. He's the kind of person that believes he is smarted and harder working than everyone else. So if suggestions are made to him he views that as an afront. If somehting is approached or done in a way different than he would he views it as wrong. He is also obcessive and will fixate on a person to the level of stalking. He sends out emails with the facts stated 'incorrectly', and I'm being kind saying that. If the person who is the subject of the attack, tries to at least get the correct facts out there, so they won't be blamed for something they didn't do, he doubles down and goes sorged earth on them. If they don't try to correct the facts, then he will use the fact that they didn't deny it as proof it is correct and hold on to it to use it against them. He has secretly added himself to the group email list for the unit of people I supervise. He has not done this for any other unit. He has asked me to do things not as part of my job and as part of punishment, like to show up in very early mornings hours at a far remote office and move furniture. It is my understanding that only staff whose job it is to move furniture should do that. And that my doing so may be a violation due to liablity. But I was threatend with disipline if I did not. He has taken most of my management duties and transfered them to a much more junior supervisor, who prior to then had only supervised two people. And now has me doing the job of a postion to which I had been supervisor. The now primary supervisor does not know what he is doing so bascially comes to me for everything. The prior people I used to supervise still come to me as they don't get staisfaction with the new supervisor. My title did not change and I did not take a pay cut but now I'm basically doing two full time jobs.
I take pride in my work and really care about the clients and my coworkers. That plus my personality of wanting to help, makes it difficult for me to just sit back and let thigs fall apart. Plus I think that is part of his plan. That if thngs did fall aprat I would be blamed. He has done this before when the other supervisor didn't follow through with somehting. Some how I got a nasty email from him telling me not to do that agian. He has also told me not to go to long standing meeting with outside governmental agencies. He has instead told the other supervisor to go. The other supervisor told him that he didn't know about the topic and since I have been our representive for a couple of years, that I should be the one going. He still insisted that I not go.
I have gone to HR. I'm not a go to HR as th first option kind of person. I recieved no help. They told me he could monitor his staff, make changes in assignments etc. They did point out that when he wanted me to record hours improperly and I asked them for clarifcation, that they agreed that how I reported things were corrected. I pointed out that that was part of the reason he was retaliating against me. And that nothing in his job description allowed him to send out false information in emails to me as a way of documenting somehting that I did not do. And that while he could monitor his staff etc. He was only doing this kind of monitoring with me and doing so as retaliation. HR ended up telling him I had complained without gving me any kind of a heads up. I found out because he told me not to go to HR anymore and just to keep it between him and I.
I also went to my union to have them inform upper management of what was going on and to see if they knew and approved of it. It turns out they know. He had been giving very inaccurite information about what I was doing, basically just making up bad things about me. They took it as truth without even checking or informing me. And said they found it 'concerning'. So there was no help to be found there. The union rep told me the I didn't have any friend in the administration. Keep in mind I had been working athis company for decades and never received and bad review or disipline.
I have also talked to him directly, several times. I told him it was counter productive the way he was treating me and would not get the best for either of us. I told him was had been very willing to assist him and that I wanted the best for our clients and wanted the employees to be happy at their jobs becsue that would get the best for our clients. His responses ranged from him stating he was suprised how difficult I was to manage or that if I didn't follow his directive I would be disiplined.
I don't want to leave my job as it is a bit of a calling. I'm not revealing the nature of the work for privacy reasons. Also in the area of state I live in, where I work is the only employer that has this kind of work. If I could explain what I do, you would understand why there are not other employer options.
My question is, what do I do now?

Wayne answers Hello there, The first thing that I would do Would go to the highest level of Management that you can locate. it appears to me that you've got no results because you have not talked to true decision makers who have the authority to change what you want changed.

in dealing with a big bureaucracy like you're involved with you have to go to the very top first. and then force Their decision down to the underlings.

The second thing I would suggest Is to Change your attitude about what's happening around you. You could exist in chaos and be completely happy if you start training your mind to think those thoughts.

Choice you would have is just create other things that make your life Happier and leave your job And find something that really stimulates you Make you happy and generates cash you can live. there are always other choices out there. So To summarize

You have three choices One fight the lion from the top, Scan your job and change how you think So it doesn't bother you, and third leave your job And use your creative mind to create a more satisfying fulfilling life. N

Somebody 2025 I heard that you fix things, too. I got a short thin wire down my garbage disposal. I don't dare turn it ON in case it STOPS. Do all disposals have a little re-set button? I can't find mine nor can I find my flashlight. Can you help?

Wayne answers its very easy to fix disposals...just get a long broom handle ,insert it in the top of the disposal. then force the barrel inside to back and forth until it spins feely. then reach in and get the wire out. and try it. you may have to push the reset button on the bottom of the disposal also.
this works every time!!

Daniel 2025 My oldest son just turned 12. What’s the best advice you would give to a young person today? Thank you for sharing your knowledge

Wayne answers hi Daniel,

the best things to do is instill self worth, by enforcing self actualization. encouraging taking on challenges, and with your guidance, succeeding at them. teach him what it feels like to feel success at anything. and build challenges to meet his level of achievements.

also encourage staying in love energy. and proving you have unfailing love for him continuously. you can do this best if you practice being in love energy and he learns it from you. check out my mini love tutorial at achieveloveenergy.com... its a one minute love exercise every morning.

so is suggest lots of encouragement and lots of love energy.

oh yes, and teach proper limits and enforce them.

let me know if this helps. wayne

maureen Is conflict in human affairs inevitable?

Wayne answers Yes, its our nature...but it is also resolvable. It's as simple as just creating the proper thinking in your mind about your conflicts. And helping those you are in conflict with create proper thinking so that you can resolve your issues In the arena of love and happiness.

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Wayne adds: buy gold that YOU control - you own - you can hold. If you buy it and it is controlled by some other entity - a brokerage house or an IRA - you just never know. You want to be close to it, to feel it. Control it. That's Wayne's advise. (his assistant)

Wayne answers: its very easy to buy fractions of gold, physical gold...go to coin shop in your area they sell one ounce gold mini sheets that break into about 50 parts....or buy baby gold coins for a couple hundred bucks.

gold is safest investment of all of them!

Wayne answers: the best way to not be overwhelmed is to use the thought, how to eat and elephant? you cant eat the whole elephant all at once because it is overwhelming. but you can eat one toe nail easily.

so just list everything you need to do, then only visualize doing one or two things. just eat one toe nail!

i use this all the time, because i have way more to do than i can ever complete.

also, go to my achieveloveenergy.com site and start practicing self love and staying in love energy. if you do that it makes all you problems much smaller and more tolerable.

also, picture the future with these words
" the future was perfect for me"
start saying that over and over and eventually you will be happier and feel more capable.

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Sup Wayne! Appreciate what you’re doing.
I get overwhelmed all the time. Like, everything feels like too much, work, life, trying to “make it.” I shut down easily. I’ve been told I’m smart and capable but I always sabotage myself. Why do you think people do that? How can I stop getting in my own way?

Wayne answers never give your money to anyone or any entity you dont know. also stocks always crash at some point so dont do those. its best to invest in thing you can control or trust the person who controls it.

i chose real estate and gold. gold is going up over 10-20% , and it is perfectly safe!! remember enron!!

Faby Mora 2025 Hello Wayne, Hoping all is well.
What is your opinion of CONNECT INVEST Short Notes? With a min of 500 you can earn 9percent if held for 24 mths or some great rates even for shorter periods. Can I recommend to my children and feel confident ( we do not have a fin advisor and schooling did not give the basics of how to let money grow for you) I am still doing due diligence by researching what I can. It was highlighted in a "Bigger Pockets" article and many with reviews are happy. However, they do not have phone lines to call in and ask questions from some comments. Are these types of funds safe? I tried with Fundrise with very very small amouts when I wanted to test them out and when I decided to pull out what I did put in, it suggested I needed a higher balance to request a withdrawal. The 9percent at Connect Invest is very attractive how would you evaluate this and what is your opinion do these funds tend to be safe? I understand you are not a financial advisor :) I am asking about any and everything these options for me as a senior are a puzzle right now. Do you think just buying REIT stock will be better in the long run based on their dividend payout and history? Thank you for your recommendations previously as well.

Nobody 2025 Hi Wayne! Hope you're doing well today.
I’m 28 and honestly feel super behind in life. I scroll social media, and everyone seems to be thriving, traveling, owning houses, doing big things, and here I am, still figuring out who I am and what I even want. How do you stop comparing yourself to others and just be okay with where you're at?

Wayne answers believe it or not, your happiness is simply the words you voluntarily pick to tell yourself where you are at!! so you play a record in your brain that says negative things like you not as good as other people.

its is so easy to change your feelings by changing the record in your brain, just start saying the opposite or any positive statement about you!

repeat it over and over all day long and you will be surprised how well you feel.

words create thoughts, thoughts create emotions...not the other way around.

Ram 2025 Yo Wayne, is it normal to be tired all the time even if you're not doing much?

Wayne answered: no, could be mold in your house, it sucks your energy.

also if you eat a lot of sugar, that will tire you. and you might get your blood tested...could be deficiency. also maybe do live blood test to see if your blood is clean or injured from vaccines.

John 2025 Hey my man, I feel like I keep messing everything up lately. What should I do?

Wayne answered i teach 'mistake your way to success!'

i mess things up more than you....but i dont put myself down for doing it.
i laugh at myself and go on to try again,,,, and again...and again...laughing whenever i goof up.....

it works! its all the words you say to yourself when you mess up!!!

Brad 2025 Peace Amigo - should I ask my database of 5000 multimillionaires to help me launch a PE co. or capital co. I was thinking that the co. could be a franchiser of health club franchises.

Wayne answers I don't see why not. sounds viable at first glance.

can you send me your contact for that data base? i have Real Estate program called Junk Land Into Gold that i would like to make available to savvy investors to make them more savvy.

ck it out at JUNKLANDINTOGOLD.COM it teaches how to get 100 times your money back on real estate investments.

Fabiola Mora 2025 Hello Wayne, Thank you for this opportunity.
Where can I have an advisor look at and request copy of my original policy ( WHOLE LIFE) that I paid in full for a year or more and then not realizing the cost and not asking the right questions didn't continue paying so based on a clause I selected it was converted to a TERM LIFE that expires in JUN of 2027, they are charging me 50.00 to get any information or copies of the policy and really moving me around and and now that I wish to cancel and be reimbursed they state in email that I will get 435.00 back if I cancel at this time. Where can I get help. I tried to sign up with a company to figure things out but it is overwhelming. What kind of lawyer do I need (if I need one) to get copy of my policies (old and converted new) and figure out the numbers? I am at a loss now and would like to put funds to grow in a different way. The company is Lafayette and I find it odd the charge for a copy, and for details on the converted TERM POLICY. Many things do not add up, I paid over 7500 in full at the beginning in 2022 approx. I have been searching my email history for any pdfs from them and cannot find it, I am a senior and a bit despondent about this.

Wayne answers hello Fabiola, the best way to fight big ins companies Is to file a small claim in your local court against the insurance companies. Once I get this they will contact it with you and try to negotiate with you And you might be able to get a good deal.

but generally they wait to the very last minute to negotiate with you so it's best if during the beginning of the case you do what is called discovery and you the court will require them to respond to your request For all the information that they have regarding your policies and communications. if they don't provide them they're in contempt of court. so this is a great vehicle for forcing them to show you what they have and also to have a judge adjudicate the fairness of what they're doing with you if they're treating you fairly or not.

There is also an interesting company who will fight for you the Consumer Finance Protection Agency. You can file a claim with them and they'll fight for you to get your money from the guys they'll file a claim against the insurance company and then force the insurance company to respond. sometimes this works sometimes it doesn't. but it's free and you can do it online

Somebody 2025 I want to get a dog, and I don't know what size to get. A little dog can be so cute - but it might be wmpy too get a little one. Should I get a BIG dog?

Wayne answers the size of your house matters, big dogs need more room. also big dogs need more exercise. little dogs are less bother and easier to care for and exercise.

you cant lose on whichever you get...they all love you with gobs of love!

also consider shedding...certain breeds shed a lot.

and certain breeds bark a lot, like American eskimo, and chihuahua.

good luck!

Fabi 2025 Hello Wayne, Thank you for the explaining how gold can be purchased in fractions on a previous response. This was new to me. Can you please let me know which company you recommend for a GOLD IRA? Is it correct to compare all fees (this has become overwhelming dealing with custodian, storage, and setup costs and comparing. Flat rate fees won't help since I will be starting with small amounts to see the deposits grow in value. ) I am hoping you can recommend one or two so I can go indepth to research and actually start one. I was unable to work in my 30s 40s and till mid 50s fully so trying to play catch up with retirement strategy. On any scale - very very challenged right now. Can you refer to a personal retirment planner? No one touches anyone who does not have decades and hundres of thousands in savings thru 401ks etc. I look forward to your response. I wish we had a notification in email to say when you responded to any questions on this platform:) Faby

D 2025 I really appreciate this. Addiction will destroy your life!

Wayne answers Yes Addictions are life destroyers. one thought processed to keep in your mind is that instead of going for the Big Bang that addictions give you trade it for a lesser more continuous bang of the joy and happiness you feel when you get into love energy and then practice being in love energy every day Continuously as much as possible

this arms you from wanting the Big Bang because you're getting a continuous small bang from the love energy you feel and it makes you less hungry for the Big Bang. and acknowledge that addiction always stays with you even if you have it conquered and just acknowledge that it's always there and you should always protect yourself against it even when you feel healthy and happy and your life is going perfect.

go to my site achieveLoveEnergy.com, This site will give you a one minute Boost to stay in Love Energy all day long And help you conquer your addictions!

Jerome 2025 Hello, I’m working on a land deal right now and could use your insight. The property comps around $290K, but about 30% is wetland and 65% is in a flood zone.

Do you have any suggestions on how to approach this kind of deal or what kind of buyers might still be interested?

Wayne answers On this one your best bet Is to find a real talented broker who sells Troubled raw land. There's always someone who will buy any property Even if it's not buildable. And typically all jurisdictions allow at least one buildable habitable house on any property no matter how bad it is so look into that rule it'll even allow you to do it in a wetland